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The truth behind: What 2015 has taught me

Most people long for the day when they finish their university finals for the semester to drink, party, sleep in, spend endless hours binging on Nexflix, and here I am. I concluded my last exam just over three days ago and all I have wanted to do was have a few silent hours to sit down and write. I have waited for December 11th to roll around so I could get around to responding to lengthy messages from friends, plan other peoples trips, catch up on what other bloggers have been up to and to actually try and relax which is nearly impossible for someone who constantly wants to be moving.

December is naturally a hectic month. There is Christmas around the corner and everyone is shuffling from store to store aiming to find that perfect present for the special people in their lives, students are ripping clumps of their hair out hoping on one of those strands contains the answer to the equation they just cannot seem to grasp the concept of, and December also happens to be reflective time while taking the opportunity to ponder what you have accomplished in the last 12 months. 12 months, 52 weeks, and 365 days, how did you choose to spend those 8760 hours? I am still in complete awe of how much has taken place in just this one year, it has flown by. I can honestly say I have no regrets, since I have done 10 countries and an estimate of 12 different cities. I called it from January 1st that this was going to be a whirlwind of a year and my prediction was dead on because I could not have asked for more. I am sure plenty of people surrounding you in your life will begin to discuss what they want to accomplish in 2016, but for now here is what I have manged to learn in 2015.


Amsterdam, Netherlands

Your best friends are not determined by who you have known the longest: Don’t get me wrong, I love my friends who live in the same city as me and have known all my life, but I have also managed to create new friendships with people I have known for less than 42 to hours that I connect with on a whole other level than someone who lives 5 feet away from me. People who I met 2 years ago that I talk to every few months have a genuine interest in what is occurring in my life and are actually curious what I am doing in a whole other time zone, on a whole other day different from the one they are on. They ask who is that cute boy tagged in your Facebook photo, how is teaching going, what did you get up to this weekend, the questions you do not ask the people you see everyday because you simply just don’t think of it. The friends that are worldwide, are the ones closest to my heart because the way the bond was formed is different than any other person in my life. Long distance friendships actually requires commit from people on both ends to maintain a solid relationship miles away. Although nothing can replace the memories I have with my elementary best friends, you cannot determine or measure the worth of a friendship  just based on the amount of time you spent with someone. I miss people who live hours away more than the ones I can walk over to in 10 minutes and exchange a hello with face to face.

“Instead of collecting things when you travel, try collecting new friends” – Brooke Saward


Zurich, Switzerland

You are smarter than you think you are: I challenged myself academically this year by taking 5 university courses which is not something many people usually do if you want to factor in still having a social life and work part time. The first month of September was a breeze and then eventually the workload began to pile up through October and November but it was never anything I couldn’t handle. I received A’s and B’s all semester and was over the moon once I noticed that “Hey, I am a smart girl”. I completed 17 essays and wrote an exam once over the course of 3 months and excelled by my standards. For the first few years of university I was not confident in my marks at all and it frustrated me. However looking back I realized that the effort was never always 100% there, since it’s not hard to find something better to do than study. As I inch closer and closer to graduation with every month that passes by, I am more motivated to do better knowing that once I am done, I never have to attend university again if I don’t want too. In the end, I will have a degree and that is all I want from it. The lesson here was, if you want it bad enough, you will work at it no matter what it takes.

Nothing is wrong with being alone: People are STILL asking me if I have a boyfriend, want a boyfriend or if I am looking for one and the answer is still the same as 8 months ago, no. I have a hard enough time squeezing in yoga, work, eating, breathing, and making catch up dates with my girlfriends to keep up to date on what is occurring in their lives. So on my free days I cannot think of anything worse than spending it with a boyfriend, like it is some sort of requirement for my 20’s. Other than boarding flights and frolicking around new places, some of my favorite days are spent sitting in a coffee shop or nestled into a park somewhere, gazing at the people who pass by and I enjoy doing those activities alone rather than with another person sitting beside me. People ask if I ever get lonely or miss having a boyfriend and to be honest, I rarely ever do. So my goal for you is to try being alone, you might actually notice how refreshing it is. Don’t rely on someone else for your plans, for your company or because you are scared to be alone.


London, England

Which brings me to my next point.. Solo travel is something everyone needs to do at least once in their lifetime. It’s hard to believe at one point in time I was actually nervous about solo travel and now it is something I crave on a daily basis. I would not have met the incredible people that I did this year if I had traveled with another person by my side. Since solo travel requires you to put yourself out there, that is how you get exposed to the friendships that you will create. Since solo travel is becoming increasingly popular among the younger generation, I can promise that you will meet new people who are also looking for a buddy to hit up the hot spots in the country you are in, the chances are they looking for a friend also. So my goal for you, try traveling solo! It does not have to be across seas, it can be to the next province/state or even a solo road trip. Take the time to get to know yourself and other people in the world, because who doesn’t want a global friend base?

Happiness is based off of the things you do for yourself: Don’t suffer through a concert, drinking a bad cider, or going to a bar you hate, just because everyone else is doing it. Participate in the activities you do love and the time will be better spent. I suffer from FOMO (Fear of missing out) and have trouble saying no to things because I always wonder what will happen if I am not there, even if it really does sound like a bad time to begin with. Once I realized I do not have to attend every outing that takes place on the weekend, I discovered the things I would rather be doing. When I make the decision to travel, I do not even think twice about what is going on at home because I know what I am doing abroad will always beat the rituals that occur in my hometown, since they are all so predicable. The benefit of traveling will always be that every day is different than the last and just the thought of  that is what makes me happiest.

If you have discovered some new life lessons today, yesterday, or over the course of 2015 I would love to hear them below!

I hope 2016 brings you plenty of new and exciting adventures, wherever they may be. xx


One comment on “The truth behind: What 2015 has taught me

  1. Althea
    December 15, 2015

    You’re an impressive young woman. Really pleased to be able to call you family. I lived my life at your age very much as you are doing and I have no regrets. You come from a long line of independent women and it’s great to see that carrying on in you. Be you!

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A girl with restless feet who you will always find smiling, laughing or falling in love with something. A girl who is determined to see all parts of the world and always planning the next big adventure. Strong passion for writing and a mind always set in a dream world.

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I am a strong believer in karma, luck and timing but I also believe you are entirely responsible for how your life turns out. For the last 7 years I have been anxiously waiting to move abroad and start a whole new chapter in my life. A new home address, a new job, new relationships, a new city and new travels to look forward to. Now that graduation is quickly approaching I can’t wait for it all to unravel and become reality. I am entirely responsible for how I want my life to turn out and where I want it to go. So are you✨ #travelitaly #solofemaletravel #backpackerstory #roamtheplanet #femaletravel #procida #lovethisglobe #pinktrotters #mytinyatlas #letsgoeverywhere #sheisnotlost
It’s all messy. The bed, the hair, the words, the clothes, the heart and this life. 🌴 #mexico #cancun #islamujeres
Explain to someone how much you love them that they love you three times as much afterwards. Express to someone why you are angry and explain it so well that they themselves are angry about whatever it is with you. Tell someone how much you miss them that they cry about it. Let people know how you feel when you feel it because I promise it will be worth it 💙 #bellletstalk #procida #italy #solofemaletravel #passionpassport #lovethisglobe #roamtheplanet #backpackerstory #girlslovetravel #ladiesgoneglobal #takemebackpacking #tinyatlasquarterly #wearetravelgirls
Do you ever find yourself telling someone a story that happened to you and once it’s over think “Wow, what is my life?” Because same. 🙈 In other news, can’t believe it’s been two years since I was sitting on this boat in the sunshine over in Vietnam🌿 #vietnam #travelvietnam #solofemaletravel #southeastasia #passionpassport #backpackerstory #mekongdelta #roamtheplanet #lovethisglobe #takemebackpacking #letsgoeverywhere
Your partner doesn’t define what you do!!! Over the last few months I have heard countless break up stories and they all seem to have two things in common: 1) One person is ready to settle down and the other isn’t. 2) They all end their break up story with “Now I can travel.” I have to ask, why can’t you travel when you are in a relationship? Why do you have to wait until something bad happens? Your partner doesn’t have to come with you when you travel, leave them at home and go by yourself or with your friends if that’s what you want. You can even travel WITH your partner when you are together. Experience what YOU want to experience when you want to experience it. I’ve traveled in relationships, out of relationships, on my own, taken trips just because I want and I don’t let anyone tell me I can’t go because it’s MY life and I do what I want, when I want. If your partner can’t accept that, then I think we have found the problem ✌🏻 #femaletravel #solofemaletravel #mexcio #cancun #roamtheplanet #passionpassport #sheisnotlost #backpackerstory #mytinyatlas #letsgoeverywhere
“Home is everywhere and nowhere” - Home is more than just four walls and a place to rest your head to sleep. Home could also be your favourite spot on the beach that gets the best sunlight all day long. Home could be a place where you walk through the door of your local bar and the bartender already has your drink prepared. Home could also just simply be the idea that your favourite city of all time is a just a flight away and knowing it’s not going anywhere. Home will always be there when you’re ready for it ✨ #Paros #Greece #passionpassport #solofemaletravel #tinyatlasquarterly #sheisnotlost #roamtheplanet #pinktrotters

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